Published work:
https://theocdstories.com/relationship-ocd/lessons-learned-from-relationship-focused-ocd/
Resources and writings I found helpful:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/to-the-one-i-keep-pushing-away-please-dont-give-up_us_59a5d750e4b0d81379a81bf3
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/mental-illness-relationship_us_5924d77fe4b0650cc01ffa24
OCD specific:
http://ocdla.com/rocd-relationship-ocd-myth-of-the-one-3665
https://themighty.com/2017/01/what-is-relationship-ocd-rocd/?utm_source=search&utm_medium=site&utm_term=ROCD
https://themighty.com/2017/02/what-its-like-rocd-relationship-ocd/?utm_source=search&utm_medium=site&utm_term=ROCD